Divorce Factors in Rhode Island - Advice from Rhode Island Divorce Lawyers should include the X-Factors
Are you curious as to why most divorce lawyers are unable to answer your divorce questions with a great degree of accuracy. This lack of accuracy is due to several factors. I call them the "X Factors." Some lawyers may not discuss these factors with you, but it is important that you understand they exist. Yet these divorce factors are just as important as the rules that govern the Rhode Island family courts themselves.
The divorce "X Factors" are simply unknown factors. A divorce lawyer usually doesn't know or can't predict these factors at the time you ask him or her your divorce or family law questions. These factors are extremely likely to have a substantial impact on the answer to many of your questions.
Using Rhode Island Divorce as the most common example, the "X Factors" are:
1) The Judge that your divorce will be assigned to;
2) Your spouse's actions or reactions during the divorce;
3) Whether your spouse will hire a divorce lawyer and who that lawyer will be;
4) The actions your spouse's lawyer may take during the divorce.
The Rhode Island Divorce X-Factors are crucial for clients to know and to take seriously, not just in passing because they have a great impact on your divorce as it proceeds.
As your divorce begins and all the way to its outcome, keep these factors in mind.
The fact is that divorce is not a fun experience even when it is as amicable as you can make it. Most Rhode Island divorces have their bumps, road blocks, hurdles and major challenges. Often times these things leave a client frustrated and angry. The first and most natural place where this anger gets focused is on your Rhode Island Divorce lawyer because he or she is the only part of the process that you have chosen to take you through the divorce process. On top of everything, you are pay this lawyer to get you to the end of your divorce as quickly and easily as possible.
So what happens? You hit those bumps, roadblocks or major challenges and you become frustrated at the only part of the process you even remotely have control of... your lawyer. It's at this point that before you express your anger to your lawyer that you remember the X Factors.
Remembering these factors reminds you that, there are more things outside both your control and your RI Divorce lawyer's control than there are things actually within your control.
By remembering the X Factors, you can approach your divorce lawyer and see how you can both deal with all the factors that are present and perhaps turn the situation to your advantage, rather than getting angry at your divorce lawyer and perhaps damaging your relationship with your lawyer. A relationship between an lawyer and client in a divorce can be very touchy. Blaming your attorney for the direction of your case when the X factors may have pushed your divorce off course can lead to a slower divorce and less communication between you and your lawyer.
For the sake of your own divorce, remember the X factors and your divorce may go much smoother.
If you are concerned about your divorce lawyer's performance in your case, feel free to call me and set up a second opinion advice session to discuss what has been done and review the important case documents. Together we'll discuss not only the factors, but what you have seen, heard and the tact your lawyer has taken to give you appropriate feedback as to whether you need to give concern to your lawyer's performance.
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