Today, I am a Rhode Island lawyer focusing my practice on divorce and divorce coaching. Looking back decades ago I remember another lawyer who had been practicing in another state for some 40+ years who said something that perplexed me.
* * * Remembering the Lawyer who Hated Lawyers! * * *
The lawyer was about as true, honorable, and generous a gentleman as I have ever met. He had all the qualities I envisioned a good lawyer would have. He truly cared about each of his clients. He fought for each one within the bounds of the law, within his professional code of ethics, and with a high degree of morality. The lawyer knew that I greatly admired him as both a person and as a lawyer.
One extremely hot summer afternoon this lawyer returned to his office after losing a district court hearing. He plopped himself down in the chair at the opposite end of the short conference room table I was sitting at in his office law library. His secretary nervously brought him a lemonade and napkin then quickly skirted out of the room. There was an endless silence.
Finally, I spoke,
Chris: "I'm considering becoming a lawyer."
The lawyer lifted his head, wiped his brow with a napkin, grabbed a nearby law book and flung it across his law library breaking the law book's spine.
It was one of the first times I had ever seen this man so upset.
I was quiet until the lawyer spoke.
Lawyer: I HATE LAWYERS!
This time the pause was endless yet I was just too puzzled not to speak.Chris: "I don't understand!?! You ARE a lawyer."
The lawyer was quiet again, so I asked it as a question.
Chris: "How can you hate lawyers when you ARE one?
The lawyer waited quite awhile before speaking.
Lawyer: Chris, if you're anything like me, you'll understand when you get there.
The conversation ended.
* * * 20 Years Later We Agree * * *
I've been working in the legal field now for more than 20 years since that conversation.
As a Rhode Island lawyer, I am bound by a Professional Code of Ethical Conduct among other things. There are things that I shouldn't say or do and there are things that I can't say or do despite the right to Free Speech guaranteed to all of us by the United States Constitution. The layperson would be amazed.
* * * A Message for Roger * * *
For a point of reference only, the lawyer's name was Roger.
Hopefully he's still alive and hopefully he is in tune enough with today's "internet" that he reads this article.
First, to this great lawyer.
Roger, I was like you. I understand!
* * * A Message for Readers * * *
Now, to my readers I offer this.You may not understand this statement until you meet with me.
If you like lawyers, you probably won't like me.
With that said, I can tell you that as a Rhode Island Lawyer who has focused my practice exclusively in the area of divorce and family law, I cannot make your problems go away. No lawyer can! Yet some lawyers may tell you they can to get you as a client.
Lawyers can't make your problems go away because fundamentally they are your problems. Only you can take responsibility for those challenges in your life. Only you truly have the power to resolve those challenges by your decisions.
However, I can tell you that I can help you understand and get through your Rhode Island divorce or family law challenges by working with you either as your Coach or as your Representative.
* * * Your Divorce Coaching Program * * *
Roger's words were invaluable. Today, they are the powerful force motivating the continued growth of your Family Law Coaching program.
I call it Your Program because it is designed specifically for you. It is designed to teach you, train you, advise you, inform you, and save you time and money in the areas of divorce and family law.
As Your Coaching Program continues to evolve, it will continue to work faster for you, become more economical for you, and become more helpful for you.
Whatever you choose to believe, there is one thing you can know with certainty. I am one lawyer trying to make a difference for YOU with a new and innovative way of practice designed by hard work, my belief that you can do more than you believe you can at this moment, and your willingness to be open to something new that works.
What can Your Coaching Program help you with? Here is a brief list . . .
Rhode Island Divorces & Legal Separations, Rhode Island Child Support Establishment, Modifications, Collections and Terminations, Rhode Island Child Custody Matters and Child Custody Modifications, Rhode Island Petitions to Enforced Marital Settlement Agreements and Property Settlement Agreements, Preparing Pre-Nuptual Agreements and Ante-Nuptual Agreements in Rhode Island, RI Petitions to Move Out of State with Minor Children, Petitions to Establish Paternity in Rhode Island, Rhode Island Motions to Adjudge In Contempt and Defense of those Contempt Motions, Protection from Abuse Petitions and Defense Against Such Petitions, Rhode Island Motions and Petitions to Establish, Modify or Terminate Visitation, RI Common Law Divorces and their Defense, Rhode Island Legal Rights, Rhode Island Family Court Procedures, 2nd Opinions about your Attorney on Rhode Island Divorce Cases, Pro Se Representation (i.e. Representing Yourself Appropriately in Family Court), and many more . . .
Look for the Testimonials Section about Your Coaching Program which is coming soon. Feel Free to Call Me for a low-cost Coaching Session!
Attorney Christopher A. Pearsall - Phone: (401) 632-6976
A Lawyer who Hates Lawyers? What is this RI Divorce Lawyer Really Saying?
Today, I am a Rhode Island lawyer focusing my practice on divorce and divorce coaching. Looking back decades ago I remember another lawyer who had been practicing in another state for some 40+ years who said something that perplexed me.
The lawyer was about as true, honorable, and generous a gentleman as I have ever met. He had all the qualities I envisioned a good lawyer would have. He truly cared about each of his clients. He fought for each one within the bounds of the law, within his professional code of ethics, and with a high degree of morality. The lawyer knew that I greatly admired him as both a person and as a lawyer.
One extremely hot summer afternoon this lawyer returned to his office after losing a district court hearing. He plopped himself down in the chair at the opposite end of the short conference room table I was sitting at in his office law library. His secretary nervously brought him a lemonade and napkin then quickly skirted out of the room. There was an endless silence.
Finally, I spoke,
The lawyer lifted his head, wiped his brow with a napkin, grabbed a nearby law book and flung it across his law library breaking the law book's spine.
It was one of the first times I had ever seen this man so upset.
I was quiet until the lawyer spoke.
This time the pause was endless yet I was just too puzzled not to speak.The lawyer was quiet again, so I asked it as a question.
The lawyer waited quite awhile before speaking.
The conversation ended.
I've been working in the legal field now for more than 20 years since that conversation.
As a Rhode Island lawyer, I am bound by a Professional Code of Ethical Conduct among other things. There are things that I shouldn't say or do and there are things that I can't say or do despite the right to Free Speech guaranteed to all of us by the United States Constitution. The layperson would be amazed.
* * * A Message for Roger * * *
For a point of reference only, the lawyer's name was Roger.
Hopefully he's still alive and hopefully he is in tune enough with today's "internet" that he reads this article.
First, to this great lawyer.
Now, to my readers I offer this.
You may not understand this statement until you meet with me.
With that said, I can tell you that as a Rhode Island Lawyer who has focused my practice exclusively in the area of divorce and family law, I cannot make your problems go away. No lawyer can! Yet some lawyers may tell you they can to get you as a client.
Lawyers can't make your problems go away because fundamentally they are your problems. Only you can take responsibility for those challenges in your life. Only you truly have the power to resolve those challenges by your decisions.
However, I can tell you that I can help you understand and get through your Rhode Island divorce or family law challenges by working with you either as your Coach or as your Representative.
* * * Your Divorce Coaching Program * * *
Roger's words were invaluable. Today, they are the powerful force motivating the continued growth of your Family Law Coaching program.
I call it Your Program because it is designed specifically for you. It is designed to teach you, train you, advise you, inform you, and save you time and money in the areas of divorce and family law.
As Your Coaching Program continues to evolve, it will continue to work faster for you, become more economical for you, and become more helpful for you.
Whatever you choose to believe, there is one thing you can know with certainty. I am one lawyer trying to make a difference for YOU with a new and innovative way of practice designed by hard work, my belief that you can do more than you believe you can at this moment, and your willingness to be open to something new that works.
What can Your Coaching Program help you with? Here is a brief list . . .
Rhode Island Divorces & Legal Separations, Rhode Island Child Support Establishment, Modifications, Collections and Terminations, Rhode Island Child Custody Matters and Child Custody Modifications, Rhode Island Petitions to Enforced Marital Settlement Agreements and Property Settlement Agreements, Preparing Pre-Nuptual Agreements and Ante-Nuptual Agreements in Rhode Island, RI Petitions to Move Out of State with Minor Children, Petitions to Establish Paternity in Rhode Island, Rhode Island Motions to Adjudge In Contempt and Defense of those Contempt Motions, Protection from Abuse Petitions and Defense Against Such Petitions, Rhode Island Motions and Petitions to Establish, Modify or Terminate Visitation, RI Common Law Divorces and their Defense, Rhode Island Legal Rights, Rhode Island Family Court Procedures, 2nd Opinions about your Attorney on Rhode Island Divorce Cases, Pro Se Representation (i.e. Representing Yourself Appropriately in Family Court), and many more . . .
Look for the Testimonials Section about Your Coaching Program which is coming soon. Feel Free to Call Me for a low-cost Coaching Session!
Attorney Christopher A. Pearsall - Phone: (401) 632-6976
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