Being a good Rhode Island lawyer when handling a divorce matter isn't about knowing the basics, a few forms and a the fundamental rules anymore. So if you're considering representing yourself in Rhode Island's Family Court System you need to know a lot more if you have an untrusting or deceitful spouse.
Today's technology brings with it many conveniences but it also brings with it many dangers.
Let's imagine that you are a lawyer representing a client or even a spouse who wants to represent himself or herself. Do you know about Patrolman GPS? What about the FamilyMap Celphone Service by AT&T? Okay, how about MobiStealth?
If you are a Rhode Island lawyer representing a divorce client and the opposing party seems to be one step ahead of you every time, or if you represent yourself and the same thing is happening then you need to at least jump onto the internet and find out about these and many other devices and services FAST!
Let me introduce you quickly to each.
Patrolman GPS is a small attachable GPS tracking device that can be used in a magnetic case and put in your pocket, on your car, in your briefcase, in your glove compartment, etc... and track your every move.

PatrolMan GPS (Front and Back)
FAMILYMAP Service
FamilyMap is a service you can add to your AT&T Cell phone service. Unless you know what this service is, what it does, AND you also take care of paying the cel phone bill then you wouldn't even know that you are being tracked by GPS built into your cel phone regarding your every movement.
MOBISTEALTH
Now for Rhode Island Divorce lawyers this is one to throw into the works that will rock your world and your client's divorce if you are not careful.
MobiStealth is a tracking program that can be installed and remain completely hidden on many cellular phones and is linked both to the phone itself and a GPS Satellite tracking system. It is reputed that this little germ (as I prefer to refer to it) of cell phone spywhere can do the following on your cell phone.
- Email, call and SMS history– Stores copies of emails, call logs and SMS that were sent and received from the phone.
- Recent location – MobiStealth can be set to automatically retrieve the GPS coordinates of places that were recently visited. To get live tracking you will need to signup for the PRO and PRO-X versions as the Lite version doesn’t offer real-time GPS tracking. You will also need to signup for one of the PRO versions if you want to track a phone that doesn’t have GPS.
- Secretly Record Phone Calls (PRO-X Version only) – With this feature you can have MobiStealth record incoming and outgoing calls to specific numbers and even perform reverse phone number look-ups to see who the call are made to or received from. This feature alone makes MobiStealth a much better buy that many other Android spouse spy software because it doesn’t require that you are there to listen in on calls as they are happening.
- Retrieve Pictures and Videos – A picture, they say, is worth a thousand words and in fact may be all you need to make your case against someone, especially if the person has the habit of taking lots of pictures and videos. This feature allows MobiStealth customers/clients to remotely retrieve pictures and videos that were taken with the targeted phone.
- Recordings of the Phone’s Surroundings – This spy feature can turn on the phone’s microphone in order to secretly record conversations that are within earshot.
- Bookmarks, chat Sessions and Calendar events – A detailed record of bookmarks, chat sessions and calendar events can be just as incriminating as photos and text messages. You can use this Android spy app to review of chat sessions, calendar events and even contacts that were created.
- Internet Browsing – If you are concerned that the phone in question is being used by your spouse to view inappropriate content, MobiStealth can help you get all the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions or confront your partner.
To this point there haven't been cases addressing the legality of these particular devices when used in connection with Rhode Island divorce cases by the Rhode Island Supreme Court.
However, from the perspective of Rhode Island lawyers representing you in a divorce proceeding these are becoming more common issues that should be considered. These should be considered not simply due to the possible invasion of the attorney/client privilege but also due to the fact that legal protections and/or motions may need to be filed in the family court to establish prevent further invasion and/or validate the criminal nature of the surveillance.
Technology concerns in divorce cases in Rhode Island are no longer optional for the lawyers in the cases or those people who represent themselves. Divorce is a whole new ball game folks. Knowledge of technology is no longer optional.
I'm Attorney Christopher A. Pearsall and I am "The Rhode Island Divorce Coach."
My Sincerest Wishes for Success if you Appear before the RI Family Court,
Chris









Rhode Island Divorce Attorney Coaching Tip: Be Aware of What Untrusting Spouses are Capable of!
When trust breaks down in a relationship you'd be surprised at what can happen. Your trusted partner can turn into your worst nightmare whether you are married or not.
Here are just five (5) ways a trusted partner has lost trust in your faithfulness can help to cause the destruction of your relationship or invade your privacy.
1. Your trusted partner may hire a private investigator to check into anything and everything you are doing, follow you around day and night, and even cause you to become paranoid and in fear of your life.
2. Your trusted partner could install software on your computer to spy on you that might do everything from cataloging everything you do... to literally turning on your webcam and watching what is going on in your room without your knowledge.
3. Your trusted partner could install remote control software that allows him or her to gain control of your computer at any time of the day or night if you have an "always on" internet connection such as dsl or cable internet, which may even include turning on or shutting down your computer whenever they want.
4. Your trusted partner could "bug" your car with a listening and/or tracking device to hear what you are saying, record what you are saying, or even track where your car is at any point in time.
5. Your trusted partner could obtain your passwords for online accounts you have set up, or even set up "online access accounts" with companies they know you have services with in order to obtain detailed information about what you are doing on your phone, with your texts, with your travel, in your smartphone's email, etc...
One of the most prevalent statements I hear from people who come to me for advice when they mention things that indicate any of these things may be occurring is, "my partner would never do that."
The best first step toward protection you can have is to avoid ignorance. Any spouse who is emotionally angry or scared enough is capable (sometimes with a little encouragement or suggestion from a friend or even an attorney) of falling into the trap of becoming even more untrusting and then become untrustworthy as that partner struggles for some semblance of reasonable assurance that their world is okay and their relationship with the other partner.
As an optimistic Rhode Island attorney who hopes that parties can survive their relationship difficulties I still advise my clients of one thing.
It is this.
Your best defense is to avoid ignorance.
Keep this statement always in the back of your mind.
"Any partner with enough distrust or doubt in your relationship is capable of becoming your worst nightmare."
My Very Best to All for a Joyous, Happy and Safe Holiday Season!
I am Attorney Christopher A. Pearsall. I am "The Rhode Island Divorce Coach, and I'm here to help!
Call for your affordable Rhode Island Divorce Coaching Session or Seminar and get the information you need to make the important decisions in your life. Call now at (401) 632-6976!
Posted by Attorney Christopher A. Pearsall on December 28, 2011 at 08:07 AM in Commentaries, Computer Crimes in RI Divorces, Coping with Divorce, Divorce & Adultery, Divorce & Affairs, Divorce & Cheating, Divorce & Controversial, Divorce & Dating, Divorce & Your State of Mind, Divorce and Computers, Divorce Self-Defense Tactics, Family Law Protective Measures, Partners and Mistrust, Questionable Divorce Tactics, RI Divorce and Invasion of Privacy, Understanding Your Husband, Understanding Your Wife | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)
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